Visiting Temples in Thailand: The Complete Guide

A Buddha statue inside a temple in Thailand

Dos and Don'ts for Thailand Temple Etiquette

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Seeing a couple or many of Thailand’s wats (temples) is pretty well considered a compulsory part of the Southeast Asia experience. Visiting temples in Thailand can also be an exceptionally enjoyable experience, especially if you can look around without fear of committing some cultural infraction.

Don’t worry: Unless you really screw up, there is very little chance of getting tossed out by angry monks.

Thailand has over 33,000 active Buddhist temples; many more temples exist as ruins waiting to be restored or preserved as archaeological sites. Just as cathedrals are often the centerpieces of medieval cities in Europe, the temples in Thailand are an integrated, inescapable part of the culture. You may as well learn how to enjoy them properly without committing a faux pas.

Even better, since visiting temples in Thailand is a free or inexpensive (usually) thing to do, you can see many without destroying your backpacking budget!

The Buddhism Tradition in Thailand

More than 94 percent of religious people in Thailand follow the Theravada branch of Buddhism. Theravada is the same school followed by much of Southeast Asia and Sri Lanka.

Japan, China, and Korea generally follow the Mahayana branch of Buddhism which has a different set of traditions. The Vajrayana tradition of Buddhism is prevalent in Tibet, Nepal, and Mongolia.

The rules of etiquette for visiting Buddhist temples vary between the different schools. These guidelines apply to the Theravada tradition in Thailand.

“Buddha” vs “Buddha Statue”

The sacred Buddha statues inside the temple (there can be more than one) are most often symbolic representations of Siddhartha Gautama who lived and died between the 6th and 4th centuries B.C.

The person is referred to as “the Buddha” while the image is best referred to as the “Buddha statue” or “Buddha image.”

Saying something to the effect of “the Buddha is in that room” is incorrect unless you’re referring to someone who has obtained buddhahood!

Dress Code for Visiting Temples in Thailand

A few temples in Thailand strictly enforce proper attire; however, like usual, tourists are extended a little more forgiveness.

Famous temples such as Wat Phra Kaew inside the Grand Palace in Bangkok require that visitors dress appropriately. In a pinch, men and women alike can just cover legs with a sarong. Sarongs are often available for rent or loan at the entrance.

Just use common sense for choosing clothing to wear when visiting temples in Thailand. The general rule of thumb is to dress cleanly and conservatively for temple visits. Forgo those Full Moon Party shirts still stained with blood and body paint. Leave the sleeveless shirts and beachwear at your hotel!

Avoid wearing bottoms that:

  • stop above the knee
  • are tight-fitting (yoga pants or stretch pants)
  • are too raggedy and full of holes. If those jeans look like something the band Def Leppard would have preferred circa 1987, don’t wear them!

Avoid wearing tops that:

  • are sleeveless
  • show too much neckline or shoulders
  • show the stomach
  • portray religious themes. Avoid those popular “Sure” and “No Time” shirts for sale that have Ganesha or images of Buddha on them.
  • portray death. Wait until later to wear that Megadeth (or any other band fond of skulls) shirt.
  • portray images of scantily clad people (you’ve seen them on Khao San Road)
  • are mesh or see-through.

Other Ways to Clean Up

  • Remove hats, sunglasses, and headphones when entering the temple.
  • Cover any religious tattoos you have showing.
  • Technically, you should also wear shoes with a closed toe; however, flip-flops are usually fine. Even locals are seen wearing them. Shoes have to be removed anyway before entering the prayer hall.

When Entering the Prayer Hall

The viharn (prayer hall) is where you’ll find the Buddha statues. It’s also the place where following temple etiquette becomes a little more important.

  • Leave your shoes outside. Place them on the rack if there is one. If not, just place your shoes in a tidy manner off to the side.
  • If there is a threshold, it’s there for two reasons: to keep ghosts out and to make you look down upon entering. Avoid stepping or standing on it as you enter.
  • Be respectful. Don’t make loud noises or goof off.
  • Stand up if monks enter.

Relax. If you aren’t Buddhist, there is no need to bow, prostrate yourself, or do anything other than be quiet and respectful.

Using Smartphones in Thai Temples

Much to the surprise of visiting Westerners, monks are often spotted using smartphones in Thailand. I’ve seen them checking email and playing online games in internet cafes, too. This may not click with the “Hollywood” version of Buddhism many tourists are expecting, but it is the modern reality.

That said, silence your phone when you enter a temple! Don’t take a chance of it interrupting the tranquility or disturbing anyone.

Wait until you are outside of the worship area before posting those new photos or checking messages. Instead, stay present, and enjoy the setting for a minute.

  • Silence phones.
  • Don’t play on your phone or check messages in the worship area.

Taking Photos in Thai Temples

Unless a sign is posted, taking photos inside Thai temples is perfectly fine. Taking photos of worshipers is not nice. Even worse, taking a selfie with a Buddha statue is really bad Thai temple etiquette—don’t do it!

Running around the temple grounds stalking monks for photos isn’t very nice, either. Unique photo opportunities abound, but try to resist. The monks and nuns live there. Taking photos of them doing chores, washing laundry, eating, or performing other activities makes them into a spectacle within their own home.

  • Taking photos inside temples is fine as long as a sign isn’t posted.
  • Don’t turn your back to the Buddha statue to take a selfie.
  • Don’t snap pictures of monks without asking first.
  • Never take pictures of worshipers.

Note: The etiquette for taking photos inside Buddhist temples varies by country. For instance, taking photos is forbidden inside of many temples in Japan.

Know Your Place

Don’t walk in front of people who are bowing or prostrating themselves. In general, avoid being between the worship floor and the statue of Buddha so that you don’t unknowingly block worshipers who may be in a hurry.

If a monk is seated, try not to pass by in an upright position. You should not be higher than a monk. The Buddha statue will generally be a little elevated off the ground.

Temple Etiquette Around Buddha Statues

  • Don’t point your feet at the Buddha statue while sitting.
  • Don’t touch any image or artistic representation of Buddha.
  • Don’t turn your back while near the Buddha statue; back away first.
  • Don’t point at any of the Buddha statues (e.g., “Hey, look at that one!”).
  • Don’t sit on or touch the platform that holds the Buddha statue.

Other Don’ts for Visiting Temples in Thailand

  • Don’t kill insects of any kind.
  • Don’t chew gum.
  • Don’t smoke.
  • Don’t bring alcohol.
  • Don’t eat or snack unless it’s food provided during a function at the temple. Many Theravada monks take vows to not eat later than noon. Snacking around them while they may be hungry isn’t polite.

Monks in Thailand

At any given time, there are between 200,000 – 300,000 monks wandering around Thailand. Spending time (usually three months) as a monk was once compulsory for young men before they turned 20. Today, there are various deferments to this rule. Also, there are some requirements before someone can become ordained. Men can become disqualified for monkhood.

Having served as a monk looks good on a young man’s “life resume.” They are more sought after as partners and husbands. Young men who ordain as monks bring more merit to their family, particularly their mother and sisters who cannot become ordained.

The monks you see on your trip may or may not be monks next year. A few will embrace the monastic life and remain in service, however, a vast majority will integrate back into Thai society. Regardless, monks are held in high regard throughout Thailand. Always show respect (e.g., give them space, be willing to give up your seat, etc).

Vassa or Buddhist Lent in Thailand

Interestingly, since many young men often go into monkhood after graduation, there is a monk “season.” Many new monks are ordained during ceremonies in April, so the monkhood season coincides with school holidays between April and June.

During Vassa (known as Phansa in Thailand), Theravada monks must remain at their monasteries and not travel. Although this stretch of three months is often referred to as “Buddhist Lent,” it predates the Christian tradition by centuries!

The start and end dates for Vassa are based on the moon and change annually, however, the event occurs during Thailand’s rainy season between July and October.

During the three lunar months of Vassa, you may see monks performing their alms procession in the mornings or walking around the temples. You won’t see as many on public transportation or moving from place to place.

How to Show Respect to Monks

Assuming you aren’t acting like an obnoxious tourist, monks are generally friendly. Many welcome interaction and a chance to speak with foreigners. The younger ones are shy and genuine, while the older ones can be cheeky and direct. Either way, there is a lot of potential for a fun cultural interaction  — take advantage!

  • Don’t get in the way of monks. Allow them to walk first then you can follow behind.
  • Never position your body higher than a monk’s.
  • Women should never touch or brush against a monk.
  • Give up your seat on crowded public transportation.
  • Stand up when monks enter the prayer hall.
  • Monks receive a higher wai (the prayer-like gesture with palms together seen in Thailand) than usual. They don’t have to return your greeting.

Note: A few temples around Thailand host Monk Chats where tourists are invited to sit with monks and ask questions about Buddhism. Monk Chats are an interesting cultural experience in Chiang Mai.

Special Rules for Women

When interacting with monks, women should never touch a monk or his robes. Even brushing their robes in passing causes them to need to undergo a cleansing ritual.

When handing something to a monk (e.g., paying for a trinket sold to support the temple), put it down and allow them to pick it up.

Even a monk’s own mother cannot touch him while he is ordained!

Wat Burnout

It’s definitely a real thing. Visiting too many temples in Thailand within a short span will lessen your appreciation of them — particularly if you don’t know the history or traditions.

Each temple is unique in some way. You can always visit temples spontaneously, but taking 10 minutes beforehand to read about the temple and background of the Buddha statues inside will greatly enhance the experience.

Some Terms to Know for Visiting Temples in Thailand

  • Wat: the temple
  • Bot: the prayer hall where monks perform temple rituals. Tourists generally aren’t allowed inside the bot/ubosot.
  • Viharn: the prayer hall where laypeople can see Buddha statues. Temples can have more than one.
  • Chedi: the large stupa, often painted white or gold in Thailand. They contain important relics or the remains of important monks.
  • Naga: mythological snake-like creatures often implemented as railing for stairs. These snakes are friendly; they protect the temple.

Other Things of Interest

Yes, the women who have shaved heads and white-colored robes are Buddhist nuns (Bikkhuni). Unlike Sri Lanka — another Theravada country — female devotees still cannot become officially ordained in Thailand. The same rules of no contact, even accidental brushing in a busy place, apply for the opposite sex.

The reclining Buddha statues such as the 46-meter-long one at Wat Pho in Bangkok aren’t meant to depict him as lazy. This representation is meant to capture Buddha in his last hours on earth as his body died from an illness, widely believed to have been food poisoning.

Those ratty white bracelets travelers are often seen wearing are called sai sin. They are made from a long stretch of thread blessed by monks during a ceremony. Traditionally, a blessing for good fortune and health is said while tying them on. If you receive a sai sin bracelet while visiting a temple in Thailand, don’t cut it off later unless necessary. They should be untied or left to fall off on their own when the time is right.

This article expands upon and adds additional insight to the Thailand temple etiquette content I did for Tripsavvy.

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